Joseph. You were our unplanned surprise. You have kept us on our toes for the last five years. You have brought forth in me emotions I thought I never had and those that I wish other parents never feel. I pray your heart repair starts growing. I don't want to see you have to have another surgery. Your asthma has been under control now for 18 months- no hospital visits. But you would never ever know what all you have been through if one was just sitting on a park bench watching you at play.